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Usually people avoid eye contact, so why not run a party where we avoid not making eye contact?That said, I didn’t want eye contact to feel forced, I wanted it to feel genuinely comfortable. How?First, an experimental workshopMay 20, 2024For most attendees, the first meditation was enough. Here’s what one said:The transition moment for me was [the first meditation]. I thought about a cat that I once lived with, I would be proactively looking him in the eye and saying how much I love him hahaha. That felt very natural and easy. Then, with that feeling I was able to start appreciating the people that I was having eye contact with without the awkwardness. Also, more curiosity aroused as well!! (Since for me it’s easy to look at something for a long time when I’m really curious about it.) For others, a few additional activities or a quick 1-on-1 were necessary. But by the end, no one had trouble making infinite eye contact.We stress-tested ourselves with one-on-one conversational eye conta...
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